If you wish to have a private communication session, please do not give me any personal details about yourself or your Loved One. I will share with you everything I receive from your loved ones. It will be similar to "cosmic charades." I have clues for some things but not everything they want to relate to me. I will need your response as to whether or not you understand the information that is given to me from your loved ones. The information Spirit provides will provide the validation you need of the continued life and presence of your Loved Ones.

Communication Tips from Sharlette

* Skepticism is a good thing, but please set it aside during your communication. Open your heart and your mind so that the Love sent by Spirit can flow between you and your Loved One.

* Invite your Loved One, Angel, or Spirit Guide to join us at the time of your appointment. Tell that spirit being your questions and concerns.

* Spirit beings communicate in a variety of ways - just like we do. I may receive their information in the form of seeing, hearing, feeling, sensing, knowing, etc.

* My family works with me in the communication process. Seeing a mental picture of one of my family members is the clue there is some type of parallel between our family members. I will provide information about my family member until we find the parallel.

* The giving of names is usually given in the form of the first letter of a first name. They acknowledge people still on earth, people on the other side, and I like for them to tell me their names. I will be given a letter and then a name to emphasis the letter.

* When learning any new skill, there may be a period of adjustment while your spirit being and I learn each other's preference in the mode of communication.

* Use short answers when responding to information received from Spirit and please be gentle in your responses. The connection with Spirit is a very fine thread. Instead of responding with "no," try to answer with "I can't remember at this time" or "I'm not sure." These statements are much softer to the connection we have with Spirit.

* Psychic amnesia. This happens to everyone. This is when you forget obvious details about your family/friends, so do not be concerned as the information will "click" later.

* I have found that many from the Other Side desire to communicate with their family/friends. Therefore, please be open to Loved Ones you least expect to visit during your communication.