Our Creator gave us free will and loves us without condition. Our Creator does not punish or judge us. Unconditional Love is the greatest gift we can give to another being. We are spiritual beings having a human experience. Before we come to this dimension, we choose our parents and the lessons we want to learn. We choose the avenue by which we leave this dimension. Suicide is a choice made before coming to this dimension. There are no accidents. The "death" of a loved one opens us to Spirit. All is in Divine Order.